How to save my sister from all of this..?

k i'm 19, she's 21 soon. I'm her brother. Lately, she has changed, and has been coming home with different guys every night, not to be racist but black guys, named 'skeets, or g thug'; ect. And about a few days after each guy I hear how he did something messed up. She never gets it, and gives all her trust to each one. if I talk about it, she gets mad.How to save my sister from all of this..?
You can't save her. She is nearly grown and has to make her own choices. She is trying to find her own identity. Not to be mean but It's not your job to tell her how to live her life. I'm not sure what the race of people she dates has anything to do with it. If she is being treated bad, she is being treated bad. But that's her decision to be with them.



At 19 years old you have your own issues to deal with. The best thing you can do for her is keep your life as drama free as possible so you can be there for her when she falls or reaches out to you for help.How to save my sister from all of this..?
Talk about it with parents, maybe they can help.

Or try talking about it with her anyway.
Just say ';Sis, I overheard that you are now being called the town tramp!!'; you had better clean up your act 'cause where I heard it, is were dad goes often and you know dad!!';
As a correctional officer I see this a lot what you should do is find out the guys real names then look them up with your local law enforcement agency. SHow her what they have been in for and where it will lead her. There are different support groups out there if she needs help. My sister was the same way . I found out her boyfriends names and then showed her in the jail system what they were in for and what kind of life she was headed for if she was to stay with them. Then I took her to the battered woman's shelter and showed her where she could end up because a lot of the woman started in the same place she was and this is where they ended up. I think the best thing was when I took her to the free clinic and showed her the different types of STD's and what it does to the body. She has cleaned up and now is a Assistant District Attorney.
Just talk or tell them how you really feel
you can talk to her until the sky falls down but she has to learn and change and figure it out. you could try and figure out the root of why it started, and take it from there. but only her will stop herself from all these guys
well first of all it doesnt matter what race they are she can date watever race she wants it 2010 buddy, but i can see your trying to protect ur sister but sometimes you jus cant help her she has to learn some stuff on her own n if she doesnt wanna take any of ur advice on any of them then it might b time for u to just lett her learn from this experience but let her know ull always b there for her no matter what remember you cant help ppl who dont wanna b helped k
people have to want to be ';saved';... you can't sober up a drunk that doesn't want to be sober.
Since you are her younger she probably doesnt value much your advice. Maybe its time to call in the big guns like your parents or other siblings. It doesnt take a genius to see where she is headed if she doesnt wake up. If she is rebellious type you probablly cant sway her, she will need to fall down on her own until she figures it out. sorry thats the way it goes..keep on trying to counsel her, if her boyfreinds are dirty , show her the dirt... good luck partner.
Tell her you're too young to be an uncle. Ask you friends if they have any responsible, respectable older brothers or cousins who could hang out with you and your friends in hopes of making friends with your sister.
Tell your parents what is going on.
Nothing you do or say is going to stop her. You might as well use that energy educating yourself and working so you have a great life. If you end up a loser like these guys because you are concentrating on saving someone who won't save herself, you are just wasting the life God gave you.



She knows full well what and who she does. And I willing to bet it involves drugs and/or alcohol. I would bet my left, ur, uhm, leg. These guys are not the ones to blame, she is. People cannot use and abuse you if you do not let them. She not only lets them, she hands them the golden key.