Sunday, November 21, 2010

How to lie to girls n ignore?

hi , i like this gal , but she doesnt. she sees me as a fren.. whenever she needs somethg frm me then she will come to me .. otherwise nothg gr8..



i hv been stressing coz of her .. now she needs free vouchers of gym frm me.. she knows i'll get it for her .. she knows that i like her n care 4 her n can do anythg for her ..

i wish i could learn to lie to her.. n show i am not interested or learn to ignore her..but its hard.. we live in same house..

i am too emotional i cant get angry, if i do i may risk gettg epilepsy..



how can i change my lifestyle, i no more want to mr nice guy. wana be hard.. n ignore gals ..

how to do that.. my heart is too honest n sincere.. n weak..



i guess that gal knows that..How to lie to girls n ignore?
Please tell me she's just a flat-mate.How to lie to girls n ignore?
bring them to facebook!
You can still be a nice guy, but don't be taken advantage of, that's all. I know that you really like this girl, but she has shown you, told you and made it crystal clear that she only sees you as a platonic type friend and nothing more. Just like some girls have crushes on guys who don't happen to reciprocate the same feelings so happens to guys also, which seems to be your case.

You don't have to be mean to her or anyone for that matter, but you just have to make sure that you aren't being ';used'; by anyone. If you do, then it will make you bitter. Your heart is NOT weak, it is just that you want to help those you care about. You need to find a way to put this girl in the same category as your casual type friends and not allow your world and life to revolve around her. You need to find a way to treat her just as you would any other girl. Actually, you need to find a way to avoid interaction with her as much as you can as it will enable you to get over her more quickly.
';i am too emotional i cant get angry, if i do i may risk gettg epilepsy..';



REALLY?



Learning to put boundaries in place and get what you want out of life has nothing to do with epileptic seizures UNLESS you think of yourself as a person that gets taken advantage which triggers the seizure and serves your purpose.



You know the way out. Stop pretending that you dont. You've used these seizures as a curse for your good natured behaviors and being taken advantage of- but that's not true, is it?



STOP doing this to yourself. Wake up and take control of your own life. People do not give you seizures- YOU give yourself seizures.



Stop it.



Stop perpetuating this ';Woe is Me'; attitude.



STOP.



Tomorrow you are going to move through this and on to becoming a full fledged Human Being- One who doesn't have robotic tendencies and allow others to push your buttons. You are in charge Now. NOT your parents and not their *miserably fake* stand-ins-

the girls you claim that take advantage of you.



YOU ARE IN CHARGE. No more excuses.



let's go. NOW. BEGIN!
Just learn to say ';NO';
if you WANT a relationship with her then just tell her say ' dunoe what u feel for me but i think i see you more than a friend'

but if you want to ignore her try going out and meeting new people and not being as 'nice' to her and say NO for an answwer when ever she asks for something kinda like puttin your foot down

hope this helped.:)
lol there are many sources where you can get free vouchers to give her
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