Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Is having absolutly no ...... a reason to call off the wedding?

I love my fiance and I know he loves me the only problem is we have NO sex life. I get it once a month if I am lucky, usually more like once every 2-3 months. other than this we have an awesome relationship. I have told him how I feel and I have bitched and complained it changes for a little bit but then goes back to normal.Is having absolutly no ...... a reason to call off the wedding?
well yeah, it is. but im in your predicament too, only we have sex like once a week, if i beg. it sucks, but im still going to marry him.Is having absolutly no ...... a reason to call off the wedding?
Maybe hes just waiting for Marriage. He only gives it to you when he cant take it anymore but after the wedding he will go crazy?
you need to tell him this or say i'm calling off the wedding because i know sex isn't everything but it is a big Component and you don't wanna cheat because he can't satisfy you because dildo and vibrators are not going to work
Try less ';bitching and complaining'; and more communication about eachothers wants and needs.
Does he have any health problems that prevents him from performing? Some people for example that take diabetic medications have problems with their libido. Same things with high pressure medications. Is he depressed? Overweight?



Good luck
you better forget about him and start a new life

Without this ';thing'; a couple can't survive

Don't think at all and go on and leave him
Sexual intimacy is part of a relationship so if you can't see yourself spending the rest of your life with someone who can't fulfill your intimacy needs in the way that feels good for you then marrying them will not be a good idea.



You need to have a serious talk as to why it is this way. Is it something going on? or is it just how he is? It is better to call off the wedding (one day) then marry him and spend months or years in an unhappy marriage and then getting divorced anyways.
This really isn't something you should be sharing over the internet. You need to *talk* to your fiance, really talk - just bitching and complaining won't solve anything.
Maybe not to call off the wedding, but it is a sign something is wrong and needs to be worked on before there is a wedding. Sex is important, don't neglect it.
I would call off the wedding. If you are sexually incompatible, the marriage is doomed.

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