How to say my husband not to look at other women?

My marriage on 28 Jan 2007 in India, i need advise is i am wrong to think bad about him. i love very much to my husband like anything even i can die for him but i think (not sure need advise) he is not liking me, I show him always whenever we go out he look at other attractive women when I am along with him with 9month old baby thou they are elder to his age, he has even no more interest in sex i thing(need positive advise) yes but if i say him to do sex then he do ,not by his interest...this question always comes in mind why he not ask me first for sex why i always? because of my face or else kindly help me. Myself USHA and internally my nature is very jolly i love romantic place song and dance all are my hobbies but after marriage all gone. i feel like to have sex always ok not always but after 2-3 days i thing this is with me may because of age 26 or not satisfying with 10mint sex? no foreplay sometime 2-3mint....what to do ?i am housewife? Whole day i think of these thing what wrong with me? How i can make him happy? How he stop looking at other lady that time i feel like i kill myself but because of my 9th month baby controlling? Kindly advice me, How to get relief from my headache? Does i need to change my behavior? Or i will leave him to do what he wants?



I SAID ALL ABOVE PROBLEM TO MY HUSBAND BUT I THINK HE IS NOT UNDERSANDING ANYMORE MY PROBLEM YES one day he said i will try to avoid my habit gradually but i show him he is still looking at other lady in front of me when i went out with him.



THANK YOU VERY MUCH IN ADVANCE.How to say my husband not to look at other women?
There seems to be a lot going on in your marriage. I wouldn't worry about your husband looking a the other ladies. Men like to look at women, it does not mean you are not beautiful or desirable if your husband does this. I am concerned that he is not interested in sex. Most younger men are wanting sex all the time. Is your husband feeling depressed or over worked? Some men loose their sexual interest in a woman after she becomes a mother, other men want sex even more after their wife gives birth. For starters, do not nag your husband about his neglect of you. Make yourself as clean and pretty as you can, keep your house neat and clean, have his dinner ready, and put the baby to bed at an hour that will allow the two of you to have some free time. Ask him about his day at work, tell him about your day without using this time for complaining. I think you also need some friends with little ones so you have some fun times during your long days at home with the baby. And remember not to make your husband's time with you miserable for him. Be that happy girl he married.How to say my husband not to look at other women?
Wow, I now understand why your husband does this. You really need to stop being hysterical and start being more logical and understanding.